Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Embrace Motherhood

Motherhood can be challenging at times, but it is important to embrace the experience.


Motherhood is filled with many ups and downs; the first few weeks and months after childbirth can be especially daunting. Many women feel ill-equipped to handle motherhood, and it can be difficult for some women to embrace motherhood as easily as others. However there is no right or wrong way to raise a child. It is important that you follow your instinct and always remain calm, because your baby can sense your anxiety, frustration or any other strong emotion. Embracing motherhood can take some time, so it is important to move at your own pace.


Instructions


1. Take adequate care of yourself. It is important to get as much rest as possible, even if this seems impossible. Enlist the help of a spouse, loved one, friend or babysitter to watch the child while you catch up on some much needed rest. Regular exercise and maintaining a healthy diet is also essential. A quick walk helps restore and boost your mood and provides alone time. Eating healthy foods provides essential vitamins and minerals. Keeping a healthy diet with regular exercise also helps shed the unwanted pregnancy weight that many mothers struggle to lose.


2. Take time to bond with the baby. Babies need time to adjust to their surroundings and family as well. Talk to and hold your baby. Also, start reading to him or playing soft music.


3. Create a strong support system. During the early months of motherhood, surround yourself with those who have your and your baby's best interests at heart. These are the people you can call upon for babysitting or simply listening to any frustrations you are experiencing.


4. Get involved with passions and other activities outside motherhood to increase your productivity and sense of purpose. Children are extremely aware of when their parents are unhappy; avoid this by staying active.